The apartment I currently reside
is bang opposite the famed RBI staff quarters. Besant Nagar was as suburban in
1960s than a Thoraipakkam or Siruseri today before RBI opened a residential
quarter for their officers in the late 1960s. Besant nagar was famous for three
things at the dawn of 1970 – RBI staff quarters, Astalaxmi temple and the
cremation ground. Then in the 80s-90s this part of city became SUPER PREMIUM
for its proximity to the Beach and later in the 2000s with the advent of Tidel
Park and IT parks on ECR and OMR. Today Besant Nagar is perhaps the hottest
place for a youngster, he/she finds the beach an ideal dating place with every
kind of fast foods and eatery in the vicinity, the New Year celebrations in Besant
Nagar is on a global scale (meaning every Chennaiite anywhere on the planet
will talk of Besant Nagar New Year celebrations). In these 4-5 decades this
part of the city has grown astronomically – one of my friends bought two and
half grounds in Palavakkam for 30-40 k whose market value is over 9 crores
today.
Anyway
I got distracted singing the glory of Besant Nagar but for a justifiable
reason. I am finally moving out after spending the last 3 decades of my life
here. Strangely I am happy moving out, there is too much vehicular traffic
here, too much people movement and my heart aches for a bit of solace and
quietness and a lot more trees which my new residence accommodates. As for me,
my photographic memories of Besant nagar is walks on Theosophical Society lawns
(I was a regular for years) and Swami Paramarthananda’s spiritual talks.
Now
let me get focused on what I had in mind when I started this blog
post: my current apartment has been very fortunate, in the 12 months I spent
here I have grown as a person and importantly on the wealth front. For the first
time in my life I have a money making skill; Gods be infinitely thanked for
this. I also had a lot of travels in 2019 and I will put down this apartment
M91/6 in 2019 as the best of my three decades stay in Besant nagar.
The
registration for GREEN PARK is getting pushed by the week. If I get a HDFC
housing loan, the papers will be signed tomorrow. If I don’t make it to the
loan – strangely banks lend on the basis of salaries of employees or IT returns
of businesses when more people are getting fired and more businesses
turning red. I have a skill which is only now showing good returns but “banks
play by the safety of numbers” than make an allowance of skills- then I borrow
5 lacs for a personal loan and finish this matter. I most certainly will shift to GREEN PARK in
Palavakkam before Christmas or on 31/12 as the last of my Fixed Deposit matures
on 28/12. So that’s how things stand today. I am comfortable with both though a
housing loan would make my life infinitely easier.
I
narrate this personal tale just to make this point. Raghu who I befriended just
a little over two months said of his own volition without any nudging, “Sathya, if you fall short of 4-5 lacs, I will
be happy to loan it to you.” I was talking about GREEN PARK housing finance as I briefed him on the HDFC housing loan before he made this voluntary offer. No one in my life has placed such trust on me. I
will never risk such a confidence, I will go for the Personal loan but Raghu’s
words cooled my hearts like never before. Here was a person who is
extraordinarily good in today’s rat race world of selfishness and it is that
act that I wished to record for a blog post.
I
visited my mother this Sunday and she looks on the edge. Her face is shrunk
from no teeth at all. I was there only for 30 min fearing that my sister would
make an appearance any moment and my mood was revolting against that encounter.
So I sneaked in like a thief and sneaked out. Next day I spoke to my sister in
ages saying, “I am buying an apartment and would you come if I invite you for a
puja in the middle of January?” This is no noble gesture from my end except a
little warmth with a sister which will not make me feel like a sneaking thief in my
next month’s visit to Adambakkam.
I feel sorry that Thangam's tenure as a cook comes to an end with this shift to Palavakkam. She is a classy person though she was plagued with bad health this year. I gave her a 25 k bonus for 10 years of faithful service, also an assurance, "Please contact me anytime if there is a financial emergency. I will be more than happy to lend." Thangam speaks little; there's a lot for me to learn in terms of daily discipline, commitment to family and she carries more grace than I can ever muster in any social setting. She was good, even great and it will be sad missing her company. Now I pray for a new cook with some proportion of these qualities; it's vitally important that a person with a good heart cooks your daily food.
I feel sorry that Thangam's tenure as a cook comes to an end with this shift to Palavakkam. She is a classy person though she was plagued with bad health this year. I gave her a 25 k bonus for 10 years of faithful service, also an assurance, "Please contact me anytime if there is a financial emergency. I will be more than happy to lend." Thangam speaks little; there's a lot for me to learn in terms of daily discipline, commitment to family and she carries more grace than I can ever muster in any social setting. She was good, even great and it will be sad missing her company. Now I pray for a new cook with some proportion of these qualities; it's vitally important that a person with a good heart cooks your daily food.
As
the year comes to an end, I spent over Rs. 3,000 on books – I got one on Alexander
the Great and another on Hannibal. I also ordered some stock trading books.
This is one domain I have thirst for learning, I don't wish to squander this
state of mind by distracting myself elsewhere. I have a wish in 2020 – buy one
BBC documentary or a National Geographic Special each month I gross 4 lacs in
monthly earnings. These DVDs don’t cost much except a delivery service from a
UK or USA but I would treasure them with my life. I also have a couple of
material goals for 2020 – finalize the Kumbakonam villa deal, then have a two
wheeler for transportation to gyms and nearby restaurants (in Besant Nagar everything was walking distance) and finally afford a car. Car is a luxury I can live without but I would like to have that
experience before I can cast it aside. The purpose of this post was 2019 was an
extraordinarily good year for me, M91/6 was inordinately fortunate for at long
last I got something out of the marketplace for an earning.
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